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The Betar Project
I was once labeled the shy, quiet, introverted kid — a label that became my identity and dictated my life. But in 2019, I made a decision to break free from my comfort zone and start creating the life I truly wanted. That’s when 'The Betar Project Podcast' was born.
My mission is simple: to push myself toward becoming the best version of who I can be by engaging with the highest-performing men in the world. And I’m bringing you along for the ride.
Through raw, unfiltered conversations, we’ll challenge your mindset, your emotions, and your actions. Together, we’ll equip you with the tools, insights, and strategies you need to transform your mental state and build the life you’ve always dreamed of.
Join me on this journey — I hope you gain as much from these conversations as I do.
New episodes drop every Monday at 6 AM AEST.
The Betar Project
The BIGGEST Reasons 80% Of Relationships FAIL... | Clayton Harrop
In this episode we dive deep and sensitive into all things relationships, masculinity, and personal growth with guest Clayton Harrop. As a relationship coach, Clayton shares his journey from a challenging upbringing in a chaotic environment with an abusive single mother to helping men improve their relationships by focusing on healing themselves. The conversation covers the importance of setting expectations and boundaries in relationships, addressing unmet needs, the impact of past traumas, and the role of vulnerability and respect in a healthy partnership. Clayton also discusses the challenges of balancing business ambitions with relationship needs, the issue of pornography addiction, and provides actionable advice for maintaining intimacy and connection in long-term relationships. This episode provides valuable insights into the dynamics of modern relationships and the importance of healthy masculinity.
00:00 Welcome to the Better Project Podcast
00:58 Clayton's Journey: From Childhood Trauma to Relationship Coach
02:52 The Impact of a Rough Upbringing
07:19 Realisations and Healing
10:09 Navigating Relationship Dynamics
18:44 Balancing Purpose and Partnership
23:33 The Importance of Core Needs in Relationships
39:42 Challenges of Growing Together
43:12 Women Taking Control and Masculine Traits
44:28 The Power Struggle Phase in Relationships
44:50 Effort and Real Love in Relationships
45:07 Men's Role in Providing Safety and Security
45:36 Taking Responsibility and Communication
47:01 Understanding and Meeting Each Other's Needs
47:54 The Importance of Compatibility and Standards
54:59 Healthy Masculinity and Setting Expectations
01:12:36 Respect and Vulnerability in Relationships
01:20:51 Exploring Camera Equipment
01:27:10 Handling Vulnerability in Relationships
01:34:54 Communicating Needs Effectively
01:41:13 Maintaining a Healthy Sex Life
01:49:35 Addressing Porn Addiction
01:54:30 Final Thoughts and Contact Information
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